In human interaction, we project who we are at that specific time.
Suppose I hear you with intention. It may mean I care about your message. Similarly, if I am shouting, it means I am projecting my anger. As long as I am not concealing my real emotions, my communication is merely my projection at a point in time.
You may be wondering why it matters.
It matters because we often do not see others’ emotional projections. Instead, we see our insult (if they are angry) and our appreciation (if they are delightful). If we are not careful, we merely project our emotions based on others’ emotions. That is when the emotional drama begins, and communication goes south.
Try to watch the emotions of others in their communication next time. Then, provide an appropriate response rather than a blind reaction.
I am learning and slowly getting better at observing others. I hope it helps you as well! All the best!
