He made me cry!
She gets on my nerves!
The team is useless!
My manager doesn’t have a clue what he is doing!
My employees make me mad when they continue to work from home!
We make such complaints all day. Although we may not say it out loud, and tell such narratives to ourselves. But how does it helps us, others, our project, or our business?
Such narratives tell us that the problem is on the other end. Further, it releases us from taking any meaningful action. We spot problems in others, mourn and try to move on with life.
Such narratives add no value!
Are you telling the narrative that helps you win?