I have no control over my birth or death. Much of what I do aligns with what others in my age group do, suggesting that the aging process influences the broad direction of my evolution. My environment, genetics, and experiences shape my thinking. Overall, I may have limited control over myself.
Others are likely in similar situations. Therefore, when we see someone underperforming, making mistakes, or not meeting expectations, much may be beyond their control too. We would be better off being more empathetic and less judgmental.