We are often told that the past creates regret and the future creates anxiety. The antidote, we are told, is to stay fully awake in the present—to observe our thoughts and actions as they unfold. But the present does not exist in isolation. Our past experiences...
Happy New Year
As we close 2025 and step into 2026, we celebrate and welcome the year ahead. New plans, fresh hopes, and quiet aspirations begin to form. But a year becomes new only when we sow something new today. A seed of clearer thinking. A seed of deeper observation. A seed of...
Suffering is deeply linked to our blindness
Our emotional suffering is deeply linked to our blindness. Often, we do not know what we do not know. Even when others try to point things out, our default response is to keep navigating in the dark. We continue to suffer, adjusting to problems and challenges that...
10 Ways to Stay Unhappy
10 Ways to Stay Unhappy Have expectations from others that they are not aware of.Expect people to read your mind. Feel disappointed when they don’t. Quiet resentment is a reliable source of unhappiness. Keep your mind open to whatever comes first.Let every distraction...
Transformative moments!
Small observations and seemingly insignificant incidents can change our direction and transform us completely. Think of a prince who encountered sickness, old age, and death—ordinary sights for the world, yet powerful enough to make him walk away from a life of...
Rewind time
We cannot rewind time in our lives, but we can rewind its essence by recreating past experiences in the present. You may wonder—why bother? You are right. It is not for everyone. Rewinding is not about nostalgia or escaping the present. It is about...
Our positioning tools
Our association with notable people, fancy titles, and luxury possessions is often just a positioning frame. It signals importance, status, and hierarchy to others, and at times lends us borrowed credibility. While creating this façade, we must not forget one thing:...
Few problems truly have no solution
Few problems truly have no solution; others have solutions whose cost simply isn’t worth paying. These problems need to be shared with people we fully trust—not to fix them, but to release the weight they carry and to acknowledge our own constraints. Yet the same...
