“When I earn over $150K, I will be happy.”
Vs
“I am happy and will earn over $150K.”
“I want a leadership position so that I can lead people.”
Vs
“I lead people and will be in a leadership position.”
“I will retire early and live my life to the fullest.”
Vs
“I am living life to the fullest and will retire early.”
We tend to postpone our fulfilment in the future and put in arbitrary conditions. Life is too short to live in future aspirations. So, flip the conditions and live the best possible life!