We are all different

I often catch myself thinking negatively about others and making judgments, forgetting that we are all different. Unconsciously, I start comparing others to myself, as if I am the benchmark for some universal human assessment matrix. It’s astonishing how often I fall...

Habits and behaviours!

Our successes and failures largely stem from the countless daily decisions we make unconsciously. These decisions naturally arise when we’re on autopilot. We often refer to these decisions as habits or behaviours. But habits and behaviours aren’t just limited to...

Change has many facets!

Change has many facets. On the surface, we may notice one prominent change element, but beneath it, there are often many interconnected layers that demand our attention. Let us consider a few examples:I moved to a new location for work. Beneath this seemingly...

Change avoidance and ignorance!

Change resistance is often one of the late stages of change management. Prior to resistance, organisations typically face change avoidance and ignorance, where employees play the ‘we’re busy’ card and sideline change communications. The first challenge, therefore, is...

Distance can strip away feelings!

Distance can strip away feelings of joy, pain, and sorrow. Over the phone or web, I may pretend that life is fine, even if deep inside I feel miserable. Those feelings, though hidden, are real and affect my work and family life. That’s why it’s essential to...

Convince people to act on rational things!

Sometimes, I find it hard to convince people to act on rational things. I wonder why they do not understand basic questions and address the problems in front of them. I often get perplexed by the thought that people cannot see what is in their best interest—losing...

Change management and our intentions!

Over time, people understand our obscure objectives and intentions. Our intentions become transparent with our decisions, body language, and actions, which people around us observe over time. With time, people could see through us. If our intentions are good for them,...