Most Regrets Aren’t Bad Luck

Most Regrets Aren't Bad Luck Most regrets aren't about bad luck. They're about one of three things. You didn't think it through before you acted. Or you didn't know what you didn't know — nobody warned you, and you had no way to see it coming. Or, quieter and more...

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We Are All Guests

We Are All Guests We arrive at a company, an organisation, a marriage, a country, and within weeks we start behaving as if we built the walls. We defend the parking spot. We fight for the corner office. We treat the title as if it were carved into us rather than lent...

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Stop Being Realistic

Stop Being Realistic "Be realistic" is the most common advice given to anyone with a vision, and it's usually wrong. Neverland, Wonderland, Dreamland — none of them were ever meant to be realistic. They exist so imagination has somewhere to go. When you're setting...

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The Trap of “I”

The Trap of "I" I sat down this morning and mapped where my mind actually goes. Shopping, giving, association, hard work, a fight worth having — different doors, same room. Each one, underneath, is there to make me feel good, important, valued, confident. Draw a...

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The Vessel

The Vessel Our body is a vessel. So is the organisation you lead. Your environment doesn't just surround the vessel — it conditions it. Every report you sign off without questioning it, every steering committee you sit through half-present, every hard conversation you...

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