Most of life is spent training for a destination we never actually examine I keep a small drawing on my desk. A line that rises — possessions, association, the slow accumulation of what we call a life — climbs toward a peak labelled "material is important," then bends...
The Edge Nobody Negotiates For
The Edge Nobody Negotiates For There is a moment in most negotiations where one side starts pushing harder. More data. More urgency. A firmer voice. It rarely works, and it rarely needs to. The edge that actually moves things is quieter than that. It comes from asking...
Great leaders prepare for a hot day! Stupid ones give marching orders!
Sunday morning, a hot day in sunny Perth, we rocked up for Malaysian breakfast with our friends. We were having a great time. Kids had a casual play; we were chatting on a few important topics. Topics that do not require much brainpower. You know what I mean? Casually...
You are Spending Energy on the Wrong Problem
You are Spending Energy on the Wrong Problem Most organisations chasing growth are working the wrong side of the equation. They hire business development people. They attend networking events. They build relationships with decision-makers, impress them at the right...
Nobody Knows When to Quit
Nobody Knows When to Quit When things don't work, you try to figure out a way through. You've invested time. You've invested resources. And at some point a question arrives that you can't answer cleanly: should I invest more, or am I just dealing with sunk cost? The...
Holding on to Ground
Ground There's a thing I've been calling ground. It's the internal surface you stand on when you decide to act. To take a risk. To sacrifice something for what you want, or for what you believe in. It's made of trust, hope, and expectation — not grand versions of...
How to Improve Quality of Life
How to Improve Quality of Life There's no shortage of advice on this. Most of it circles the same territory — exercise more, sleep better, invest wisely, nurture your relationships. The advice isn't wrong. But it tends to treat each domain in isolation, as if...
Absolute Freedom
Absolute freedom can be an illusion. I spent a long time chasing the version that lives outside — in outcomes, in recognition, in circumstances finally arranging themselves the way I needed them to. There is always a next thing that will deliver it. A contract signed....
