Not to avoid pain or discomfort!

If we want to live a life with intent, it is more practical to make clear decisions and follow them relentlessly. Many times, we get distracted by shiny objects and tempting opportunities. Only later do we realise that many of them were traps—quietly draining our...

Our decisions are not entirely ours!

Our decisions are not entirely ours when others are affected by them—directly or indirectly, in the short term or the long term. When that happens, decision-making carries a moral responsibility: to be conscious of the consequences our choices may create for others....

The decisions we never made!

Ten years from now, our biggest regrets will likely be the decisions we never made. Sitting on choices can feel safe—it gives short-term comfort and shields us from risk—but the true cost is invisible: lost time and missed opportunities. Think deeply about decisions...

Do we need to make this decision now?

One of the first questions we should ask before making any decision is: do we need to make this decision now? And if not now, by when should it be made? Not all decisions require immediate action. However, delaying decisions comes with a cost—the cost of delay. This...

Quality of our decisions!

We don’t get to choose our parents, teachers, birthplace, workplace leaders, our children’s personalities, or our birth and death dates. We have little control over the opportunities we’re given or the events that shape our lives. At a macro level, much of life is...

Are we making the best decision?

We don’t just buy things—we rationalise why we buy them. Sometimes it’s brand loyalty (we trust the name), sometimes it’s peace of mind (a recommendation from someone we trust), or maybe it’s an ego boost (a luxury logo). Other times, it’s fear (dreaded end-of-support...

Humans are creatures of habit!

Humans are creatures of habit, bound by their behaviours. We tend to act in the same way when faced with familiar circumstances. Someone may apologise for their negligence, outbursts of anger, or moments of unkindness. They may offer excuses, perhaps even sincere...