We are most vulnerable to exploitation, poor decisions, and lingering guilt when we’re in a weak position. And there are many reasons we might find ourselves there—unprepared, desperate, in need, greedy, overly focused on safety instead of opportunity, short-sighted,...
The problems that don’t break us are often the ones that make us stronger. As frustrating as they are, they carry feedback messages that can shape the direction of our lives. But we can only access that wisdom when we shift our focus from the problem itself to the...
Certainty is a great reliever.When we know something will happen consistently, it builds trust and brings peace of mind. Certainty is comforting—we don’t have to question or overthink the process. But it can also keep us stuck in the comfort zone.What if we dared to...
Our callings are powerful—and often irrational—forces of motivation.At times, there’s no logical reason to persevere, yet something deep within compels us to sacrifice everything for a cause. Consider those born into privilege who risk their lives to stand against...
Slapping a solution onto every problem often just creates a new problem—slightly different, but enough to keep us endlessly busy. Before jumping to solutions, we have choices to make: We can step back and seek a holistic view—understanding symptoms, patterns, and...
Work, family, entertainment, sports—perhaps all of these are forms of intoxication that pull us away from ourselves. I often struggle to simply be at home with myself. But why should that be difficult? In theory, I could just sit, observe my thoughts, and tune into...
Trust is the foundation of any relationship.And without a relationship, no meaningful transaction can take place. That’s why trust must come first—before any deal, agreement, or collaboration can truly manifest. Trust is the invisible glue that holds the world...
“I’ll be happy once I become a CEO.”“I’ll start investing after I’ve saved $10,000.”“We’ll roll out new systems once the organisational culture changes.” Sound familiar?These are just a few examples of how we delay meaningful action by creating imaginary...