We are bound by our own blindness, deafness, and muteness. The deeper issue is our unawareness of these limitations. Even when we become aware, it’s all too easy to let that awareness slip away. True liberation may lie beyond this—where my conscious mind attentively...
I often assume people respond directly to what I say, yet I sometimes overlook that their reactions are shaped by where I speak from. Their responses hinge on my perceived position relative to them—whether that’s social, financial, relational, or in the corporate...
As executives, our role is to make decisions. Delaying, avoiding, or making hasty decisions is equivalent to neglecting our responsibilities. These actions not only hinder our effectiveness but also create a ripple effect, preventing our teams from moving forward. For...
We must know enough to be effective.Before I demand anything, I must first understand my needs. When I aim to improve something, I need to have a clear picture of what excellence looks like. When I make buying decisions, I must know what constraints I’m working...
If I say to my 10-year-old daughter:"I expect you to keep your room in good condition,"the instruction is clear, but may not fully communicate what I expect from her. If I take a more prescriptive approach that makes sense for her age, I might say:"Please make sure...
Would I do it if it were my own money? Perhaps sincerely asking ourselves this question before proposing a new project, calling a meeting, or entering into an argument would likely change how we act and respond. We might think twice, or even more, before making...
There is a clear distinction between activity and impact, though we often use these terms interchangeably. The common assumption is that more activity will naturally lead to impact. For example: We have executed 450 test cases; Written 500 lines of code; Called 4000...
We are lazy by design. We conserve energy and use the minimum possible brain power. We like to be well-fed and keep ourselves entertained. We crave security and safety. There’s nothing wrong with this. For most of us, it’s simply part of being human. However, to truly...