By default, we often receive respect based on the labels and roles we carry—our job titles, relationships (like being a parent or teacher), material possessions, or positions of authority (like a police officer on the road). These tags naturally command a level of...
Short-term ego boost!
Fancy clothes, lavish dinners, mansions, luxury goods, executive titles, team headcounts, birthday gifts and wishes — all these things can help us feel special. They stroke the ego and remind us that we matter. But it’s a shallow and costly way to get a short-term ego...
Digging our own grave!
Once a deal is sealed and both deliverables and payments are agreed upon, it's tempting to cut corners while still collecting the full payment. But every time we under-deliver, we’re not just short-changing the other party — we’re compromising our own integrity. What...
True courage and wisdom!
I may choose to work hard and long hours to provide a comfortable life for my family—a life filled with luxury and prestige.Or, I may choose to work just enough, so I can spend more time with my family and enjoy a life rich in joy, meaning, and presence—a life full of...
Leadership is about courage!
Leadership is about courage. It’s about standing up for your people in times of adversity. It’s about protecting the weak and the vulnerable, and offering them dignity and respect. True leadership means staying grounded and choosing to fight even when you’re exposed,...
We have not yet stepped into their shoes!
A family might choose to sell assets and dip into savings to save a loved one from a serious illness.A country may sacrifice its resources, people, and infrastructure to stand firm against an oppressor.An organisation might take on more debt to keep a failing business...
Say: what needs to be said!
I may like to think I possess a high level of social intelligence. In conversations, I choose my words carefully, dress appropriately, pay attention to how I speak—my pace and tone—and use body language that suits the moment. But if I’m pretending to be nice, it...
We may be just as ruthless!
We often pride ourselves on being modern and civilised—but perhaps we’ve simply upgraded our tools of control. What once looked like brutality now wears a suit and speaks in corporate jargon. It might be time for some self-assessment. Our society may appear refined on...
