We are all blind!

We are all blind!

We are all blind. As a result, we cannot see simple things that are pretty obvious to others. Our blindness can be due to multiple reasons. Our blindness can be due to excessive consumption of food, alcohol, and drugs, which hinder our focus. We cannot see how much...
It All Depends On The Narrative We Tell!

It All Depends On The Narrative We Tell!

Sometimes, I don’t stand up for myself. I let go of things because I don’t think they are that important. I tend to be flexible and adjust so we can move on with life. I may even bear insults just to avoid conflict. I may not make material decisions to prevent...
Why I Remain Unsuccessful?

Why I Remain Unsuccessful?

It is possible that, despite my best efforts, I remain unsuccessful. There can be many hypotheses to explain this. For example, I may be ahead of my time. I am at the wrong place and at the wrong time. I am too unique, or I am too unlucky. Irrespective of any such...
Leadership Is About Fostering Individual Growth!

Leadership Is About Fostering Individual Growth!

I may take pride in my work. I may have high standards, too. I may be working hard and putting in long hours. As a leader, it is who I am. However, I may lose credibility and respect by expecting my team to live up to my standards. My leadership should help my team...
Making Ourselves Redundant!

Making Ourselves Redundant!

The whole journey of leadership is to make ourselves redundant. Leadership is about enabling our people to take ownership of the tasks we have been performing (delegation). It is about developing new capabilities (automation and training). Leadership is about holding...
Embracing the Wisdom of an Open Mind!

Embracing the Wisdom of an Open Mind!

As adults, we assume that we know it all. We do not receive direct feedback like kids do. Even if someone provides feedback, we will likely deflect rather than accept it. We do not necessarily grow in our learning with age. Instead, we develop rigidity and...
Embracing ‘I do not need more!’

Embracing ‘I do not need more!’

A conscious decision—”I do not need more!”—can be very liberating. Often, I find myself stretched thin, pursuing too many things. They can be material things, health goals, business, improvements and many other dimensions of life. With limited resources,...
In the pursuit of inner peace!

In the pursuit of inner peace!

“Life is short; I want to be at the top of the ladder before I am 40.” “Acceptance is blissful. I need to practice accepting life as it happens.” “Life is uncertain; my family is my priority.” “Money is not everything. I will...
A Reflection on Journeys and Milestones!

A Reflection on Journeys and Milestones!

Our final destination is the same: death. Only our journeys and milestones are different, however. Even with them, we have minimal control. The questions are: What do we want our journeys to be? What are our expectations from the milestones? What are we prepared to...